An Early Spring? Una Primavera Temprana?

An Early Spring? Una Primavera Temprana? 馃嚞馃嚙Almond trees in bud and abundant with flowers radiating a soft fragrance. What does spring mean to you? Rebirth, new beginnings, a glow of colour to contrast against the grey bareness of nature in winter? After a cold winter, nature’s resilience and determination to bloom yet again reminds me to continually hold hope and to bring gratitude. It’s a wonderful thing to do, to reconnect with nature. How about taking some pics of signs of spring and sharing? I’d love to see them. 馃嚜馃嚫Almendros en flor que irradian una suave fragancia. 驴Qu茅 significa para t铆 la primavera? 驴Renacimiento, nuevos comienzos, un brillo de color para contrastar con la desnudez gris de la naturaleza en invierno? Despu茅s de un invierno fr铆o, la resistencia de la naturaleza y su determinaci贸n de volver a florecer me recuerdan que hay que mantener continuamente la esperanza y la gratitud. Es algo maravilloso, reconectar con la naturaleza. 驴Qu茅 tal si tomas algunas fotos de signos de la primavera y las compartes si quieres? Me encantaria verlas.

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Being in the Nowhere

Breathwork and Cold Showers to Start the Day

I am always exploring and testing methods that have profound results in changing the physiology of the body and the mindset from feelings of sluggishness, apathy, heaviness, fogginess, and other states which one might relate to as depressive or ‘down’ states.

I’d like to share with you what for me (so this is purely anecdotal and not based on evidence) has been a major gamechanger. The Wim Hof Method. I seemed to see Wim’s face appear quite often on my Facebook feed, probably to do with the algorithms that show I am interested in breathwork and meditation? So I finally decided to explore.

Wim’s story is a very sad but fascinating one, where he tried many techniques to overcome his grief and depression only to find that extreme cold immersion was what worked for him. Scientists became fascinated by his feats that earned him the title of “The Ice Man”.

I decided by testing out his free mobile App and was amazed by the effects of his breathing technique.

Early morning routine outside my log cabin home.

As a meditator and a practitioner of self-hypnosis, I really enjoyed the effect of the retention of breath. It was pure connection with the body in the present, in the nowhere, where time stops, where the mind stops, and observing the physiological changes occurring in the body.

I was surprised that I could retain my breath with this technique longer than I have ever done in my life. After the third round of the breathing technique I was able to retain my breath for over 3 minutes. When I completed the breathing techniques I began to reflect that I felt a feeling of complete peace, a quiet mind, combined with a surge of blissfulness (that was the dopamine rushing through the body), and complete absorption in the process. Curiously during the retention I had a moment where I thought if I died here and now then I would die contented! My head felt like it had a spring-clean and was fresh and ready to start the day. My body felt good. A complete change from the first paragraph.

I have invested into the programme and now carry out the stretching exercises using Wim’s breathing techniques…

His methods incorporate a range of yoga stretches
Not the most elegant of headstands but it’s been years since I was able to do them!

This lends itself so well with my running and practicing self-hypnosis.

There is also a 4 minute meditation which is just such a wonderful way to experience a powerful and quick meditation technique.

Of course the three pillars to Wim’s Method are Breathing, Commitment and Cold Therapy.

I started the cold showers when I was living in Lanzarote and it was summer. “Cold” therefore is quite a relative term according to the place you live and the time of year. So for me, it was relatively easy to do. The cold shower triggers off the fight-flight response, or the stress response when facing adverse situations. After a number of cold showers the stress response lessens and helps develop resiliency and endurance.

(Hats off to my friend, Sarah Eriksson who is getting up at really early in Sweden and immersing herself in a lake!)

Now I’m living in the foothills of the mountains where the climate is quite different and I’m really getting to experience what a cold shower really is like! At first it was like enduring something painful, the body tenses up, and at first I hated it. Then surprisingly after about a week I began to welcome it, finding that after 20 seconds my body adjusted to the cold and the tension went. The stress response was lowered and I am able to endure longer cold showers (but still have to give a lake a go!). After the shower the body feels like it is ready to take on the world, and that’s a great way to start the day! 馃檪

Not only are we talking about extreme physiological changes, a quiter mind and more focus, but the cold shower seems to have the effect of strengthening the immune system. In fact it’s here that there is scientific evidence to back it up. My body feels strong, I support colder temperatures better (and I’m one of those thin-blooded people!), I’ve not had a cold since I’ve started the techniques.

As I’m really enthused by Wim’s techniques, my interest leads me to wanting to explore it in greater depth so no doubt I’m going to sign up for a ‘Wim Hof Experience‘ and experience it with a trained person, and get into that ice bath!

If you are looking for a technique that’s not time consuming to help with depression, anxiety, rumination, chronic pain, enhanced immunity function, then The Wim Hof Method has my recommendation.

Alive & Kicking!


Trust During A Pandemic

Covid-19 has changed our lives in so many ways. It’s changed how, where, and if we work. It’s created economic concerns, made us fear for our safety and the safety of our loved ones, and brought up feelings of anxiety in even the most level-headed of people. Paranoia and mistrust is on the increase.

For some people a lack of trust in the data regarding the seriousness of the pandemic itself or whether it is even real can be based on a government’s management, what’s shared in the media, the behaviour of others in the outside world, which only confirms their bias, e.g. “I see people hitting the beaches, restaurants, crowding together and not wearing masks so it is not serious. In fact the pandemic is probably false.” Then a conspiracy theory may manifest to install a feeling of certainty in what is uncertain (our future) and invisible (the virus). It is a mechanism to help cope with uncertainty by justifying those negative feelings of mistrust, of having a lack of control, of feeling helpless, by coming up with a theory, despite not having clear evidence to back it up. But our brain is designed to believe in stories that satisfy our emotional needs regardless of whether they are true or not, so there lies the problem…

This is not painting a great picture at all for anyone living in the entrapments of mistrust and an era of misinformation. So how can a therapy such as hypnotherapy help? Hypnotherapy works as a powerful adjunct alongside various psychotherapies such as CBT, counselling, humanistic and analytical therapy. As a hypnotherapist I focus on what outome you are looking for, as opposed to feeding and embedding the issue more. The inner dialogue running around our head dictates how we live our life. So a “I don’t trust anything or anyone anymore” is a very fixed, generalised and agonising mindset which can lead to feelings of anxiety and isolation, while a “Things are a bit weird for everyone to adjust to at the moment. Lots of us are struggling in some way or another” is a wider and more objective perspective.

There’s a saying and it goes like this:

It’s not just an event like this pandemic which triggers feelings of mistrust, but it’s also a combination of our own personal beliefs towards it which influence our mental health and well-being.

What can we do for someone who is suffering? First of all, remind that person we will get through this together and it wil be talked about for decades. You will be part of history. No pandemic goes on forever and fortunately today we have more scientists to work quickly at finding a vaccine. If it weren’t for putting our trust in science we could still be in risk of dying from smallpox today. Secondly, trying times gives us an opportunity to focus on building habits to improve our relationships and resiliency. And one of these habits is building trust. Think about the survivors of environmental disasters and other traumatic experiences (such as 9/11). These experiences can bring people closer together and can build trust and deepen relationships. Sometimes out of the hellish of situations a sense of communal support, bound by a shared experience can go a long way. Afterall, we need supportive relationships in order to survive. So two elements are fundamental to overcome this pandemic – one is a vaccine, and the other is trust, especially on a more global level as we are all effected the world over in some way or another.

What are some habits that we can work on building to help us in this particular moment?

  1. Mindful hypnotherapy exercises can be used to practice being in the moment and prevent negative rumination. The only experience we are certain of is the present moment. The past has gone and our brain has an ability to distort information that has already happened. And the future is yet to happen so we can only speculate about things that are less certain.
  2. Finding gratitude and joy in the now is a wonderful habit, spending a few moments saying to yourself, or say out loud, or even journalling daily to rewire the brain from its tendency towards negative bias. “Today I am grateful for…” or “…..makes me happy/….brings me joy.”
  3. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy combined with hypnotherapy (CBH) may be used, for example, to look at the fact that business leaders cannot control the pandemic, nor can they control other external forces beyond their sphere of influence. Therefore, leaders must focus on the areas they聽can聽control鈥攕uch as product and service quality, treating their employees well and protecting them, commitment to behaving ethically and transparently鈥攁nd infuse their actions in those areas with purpose and integrity. We as individuals cannot control the pandemic either, but we can learn techniques such as self-hypnosis to manage stress, isolation, fear, anxiety to empower us and gain back control, resilience and balance in our mental health and well-being. The more self-hypnosis is practiced, the more powerful it becomes.
  4. Seek out practical information from trusted sources for basic problem-solving. You can get good quality information online and from credible sources, though I recommend you stick with 1, 2 or 3 major sources to avoid being overwhelmed with too much information, and not believe in everything shared on your Facebook feed.
  5. Apart from hypnotherapy for managing stress and anxiety, learning self-hypnosis to enhance your immune functioning has plenty of evidence to back it up. Here’s a couple of published articles below:

Gruzelier, J., Champion, A., Fox, P., Rollin, M., McCormack, S., Catalan, P., . . . Henderson, D. (2002). Individual differences in personality, immunology and mood in patients undergoing self-hypnosis training for the successful treatment of a chronic viral illness, HSV-2.聽Contemporary Hypnosis, 19(4). doi: 10.1002/ch.253

Ruzyla-Smith, P., Barabasz, A., Barabasz, M., & Warner, D. (1995). Effects of hypnosis on the immune response: B-cells, T-cells, helper and suppressor cells.聽American Journal of Clinical Hypnosis, 38(2), 71-79.

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Cold Therapy / Cold Showers

Cryotherapy or cold therapy . its benefits, precautions and how to start a cold shower routine

Based on scientific evidence.

Do you bathe or shower in cold water? Have you noticed the benefits if you do?

Here’s 5 benefits, and yes, there are more.

Remember to start progressively and build up the time spent in or under cold water little by little. Try not to make your body small and stand tall as the cold water contacts your body. Soon you’ll discover it gets easier, your mind is more set to the initial shock experience.

Being able to live with some stress and regulate it is an important life skill. Afterall, if we had no stress how would you respond in a situation that demanded action in order to survive? We don’t have saber-toothed tigers prowling around to keep us on alert mode but life today does present some situations where a healthy level of stress response and alertness is necessary.


La gratitud puede ser una de las herramientas m谩s olvidadas a las que todos tenemos acceso cada d铆a. Cultivar la gratitud no cuesta dinero y ciertamente no lleva mucho tiempo, pero los beneficios son enormes. Las investigaciones revelan que la gratitud puede tener estos beneficios:

Hoy estoy agradecida por las verduras y plantas que tengo en mi casa. Una gran cantidad ha sido regalado por mis vecinos y los dem谩s un regalo dado por la tierra. 馃檹 Todas ecol贸gicas y saludables. Gracias. 馃尡

驴Por qu茅 comparto esta reflexi贸n?

馃寛La gratitud puede ser una de las herramientas m谩s olvidadas a las que tenemos acceso cada d铆a. Cultivar la gratitud no cuesta dinero ni en tiempo, pero los beneficios son enormes.

Todo los beneficios que comparto est谩n basadas en la investigaci贸n cient铆fica:

馃檹馃徏 No solo decir “gracias” constituye una buena educaci贸n pero seg煤n un estudio en 2014 mostrar agradecimiento puede ayudarte a ganar nuevos amigos. Reconocer las contribuciones de otras personas puede conducir a nuevas oportunidades.

馃槉La gratitud mejora la salud psicol贸gica reduciendo una multitud de emociones t贸xicas, desde la envidia y el resentimiento hasta la frustraci贸n y el arrepentimiento. Uno de los principales investigadores de la gratitud, el Doctor Robert Emmons, ha realizado m煤ltiples estudios sobre la relaci贸n entre la gratitud y bienestar. Su investigaci贸n confirma que la gratitud aumenta efectivamente la felicidad y reduce la depresi贸n.

馃槾Las personas agradecidas duermen mejor. La pr谩ctica de escribir en un diario de gratitud antes de acostarse mejora el sue帽o seg煤n un estudio de 2011 publicado en “Applied Psychology: Health and Well-being”.

馃弮鈥嶁檧锔廘a gratitud mejora la autoestima. Un estudio de 2014 publicado en el ” Journal Of Applied Sport Psychology” descubri贸 que la gratitud aumentaba la autoestima de los deportistas, que es un componente esencial para un rendimiento 贸ptimo.

馃挭馃徎La gratitud aumenta la fuerza mental. No s贸lo reduce el estr茅s pero en un estudio de 2003 publicado en el “Journal Of Personality and Social Psychology” descubri贸 que la gratitud contribu铆a de forma importante a la resiliencia tr谩s los ataques terroristas del 11 de septiembre. Reconocer todo lo que tienes que agradecer, incluso en los peores momentos de tu vida, fomenta la resiliencia.

Desarrollar una “actitud de gratitud” es una de las formas m谩s sencillas de mejorar tu satisfacci贸n con la vida.

Do You Breathe Efficiently?

The beneficial properties of the breath and how to breathe properly whilst running.

We often underestimate the power of the breath. Breath is a gift which can reap great rewards if you are breathing correctly. It can lower anxiety, enhance your immune system, improve focus, reduce asthma attacks, and improve the quality of any physical activity, such as running.

First of all, I suggest you carry out this simple test to find out if you are breathing properly. If you are fortunate enough to have a pulse oximeter to measure the oxygen saturation in the blood, attach it your finger and breathe as you normally do. An oxygen saturation reading of between 95% and 99% is good.

According to Patrick McKeown, author of ‘The Oxygen Advantage’ he suggests, “An oxygen saturation of 100% would suggest that the bond between red blood cells and oxygen molecules is too strong, reducing the blood cells’ ability to deliver oxygen to muscles, organs, and tissues. We need the blood to release oxygen, not hold on to it…Increasing oxygen saturation to 100% has no added benefits.”

The other simple method which anyone can do is by keeping track of your Body Oxygen Level Test score (BOLT). This will let you know if your natural breathing is efficient or not and the method is described by Patrick McKeown. It’s best to do this first thing in the morning rather than at night to reflect your natural breathing pattern.

To do this:

  1. Take a normal breath in through your nose.
  2. Let it out through your nose.
  3. Hold your nostrils with your fingers and stop breathing.
  4. Time the number of seconds until you feel the first clear desire to breathe. (You may feel the need to swallow or your abdomen or throat might lightly contract. When you feel something like this stop the timer).

BOLT is NOT checking how long you can hold your breath but how quickly your body reacts to a lack of air.

A score of 20 seconds is average. A score of 40 is particularly good. If your score is under 20 then that’s a sign of a poor breathing rhythm and maybe over-breathing through the mouth during the day or while you sleep.

Breathing through the mouth could lead to exhaling too much carbon dioxide and your tissues receive less oxygen as a result, so nose breathing is preferable.

Breathing methods such as The Wim Hof breathing method or pranayama breathing often used in yoga are examples of breathing techniques which have gained popularity. If you are following any breathing tehnique, keeping track of your BOLT scores overt the days you are using a particular technique is a good way to understand if the breathing technique is affecting your normal breathing rhythm.

How to Breathe While Running For Beginner Runners

There are a few signs to look out for that may show you are not using your diaphragm efficiently, besides just gasping for air whilst running. These can be things like tightness or pain in your neck, or shoulders that raise and lower, an asymmetrical rotation in your torso, an arched back or flared ribs, and paradoxical breathing, when your stomach rises as you exhale and sinks when you inhale.

Bringing awareness to your breathing builds more efficiency, a steadier pace, and a calmer mind, even during high-鈥媝ressure races. Inhaling through your nose, expanding your stomach, and out through your mouth, allowing your stomach to sink is ideal for the best gas exchange at an easy pace. Give your body time to adapt, then it鈥檚 time to take focused breathing on the move with rhythmic patterns.聽starting by inhaling for two counts, then exhaling for two, a pattern called 2:2 breathing. This will help pace yourself better, the steadier you鈥檙e breathing, the less likely you are to go out too hard鈥攁nd ensure a steady flow of oxygen to your muscles.

If you are new to this, practise it walking first, then on easy runs focus for a minute or two and gradually increasing your focus. As you grow more comfortable with focused breathing, you can use it for faster runs, such as intervals.

Many new runners breathe from their chest instead of their diaphragm, further limiting their oxygen intake. Combat this with belly breathing. For five minutes in the morning or before you run, lie down and place your hand on your stomach. Take slow, deep breaths that lift your hand as you inhale and sink it as you exhale. (I’ve been practicing the Wim Hof Method in a seated meditation position every morning. In through the nose and out through the mouth). Once you鈥檙e comfortable on the ground, try taking belly breaths when walking, then running.

So keep thinking to yourself: breathing from my belly, not shrugging my shoulders or straining my neck.

Good luck and breathe efficiently. I am NOT an expert on breathwork but I certainly like to seek out advice and reliable sources.

I’d love to hear if this has been of benefit or if you have any suggestions.

Alive & Kicking.


C/F3 2020 NEOWISE will not make an appearance for another 6800 years.

Whilst the planet is living in a state of change, and much uncertainty day by day, one thing that is certain is when looking up at the vastness of space, it reminds us that we are really no more than a minute blue blip in the ocean of space and time.

Marcus Aurelius’ stoic meditations “The View From Above” is one way of looking at our problems from a dissociated and broader perspective, almost trivialising issues as being less significant than first perceived. Aurelius happened to live through a pandemic that lasted for some 12 years! Fortunately for us today we have scientists, specialists and easier ways of collecting data to contain the spread and duration of COVID-19. People are working tiredlessly against the clock to understand and fight this invisible and miniscule virus. And all the while Comet Neowise continues on its path, an epic journey of 6800 years before it shall grace our skies again. Think about that, it will be in the year close to 9000 when it will make another appearance over Earth. Who knows how the Earth and those inhabiting it will be in the future? With time being ever so changing we cannot make judgements based on how things are today. Who would have envisioned the Earth as it is in 21st century whilst living in the Stone Age? Therefore, now is a time to grace our minds in HOPE. Hope that there is more equality, more collaboration, more respect, more thriving natural beauty…hope that Neowise will be met with awe and a deeper connection in the future, time and time again. That is until the Earth will finally be consummed by our swelling Sun when it is in its last phases of life. It’s time to embrace the idea of impermanence. Control what you can control and accept what you can’t.

And how about this for mind-bending awesomeness? Do you know which is the farthest thing you can see with your naked eye? It’s the聽Andromeda galaxy, a collection of a trillion stars lying 2.5million light years distant. Now that’s a blooming long way to be able to see an object through our eyes without the use of any instruments! Also known as聽M31, it is the nearest large聽galaxy聽to the Milky Way. When we look at the galaxy we are actually seeing how it looked 2.5million years ago as it takes 2.5million years for its light to reach our eyes! Who knows how the galaxy actually is at this current moment in time or whether it exists in the spiral form that we know it as? And if we were miraculously able to go to the Andromeda Galaxy (just use your wonderful imagination here) and had the most powerful telescope ever to look back at the Earth, we would be seeing the Earth 2.5million years ago looking at Homo habilis, the”handy man” of the Early Stone Age running around and hoping not to be caught by some saber-toothed tiger!

As Comet Neowise carries on its course so do I and my family. We saw it last night (we run Astronomy tours) with a reduced group of mask-wearing people and it was like saying farewell to a dear friend as it is quite unlikely that we will see it again due to the change in weather conditions and the Moon washing out the sky. A closed chapter combined with nostalgic sadness.

I confess to worrying a lot lately, not so much about myself and my husband working with tourists and the possible risk of contracting the virus, but about the care of our young children should we both fall ill. I worry about our finances and the fact that it looks like a second wave is going to hit Spain soon. Just the prospect of another quarantine and not being able to earn enough money to pay the bills to have a roof over our head and food on the table from living on an island heavily dependent on tourism makes us reflect on our future. What we gain living here on the island of Lanzarote is more security healthwise (as it’s easier to isolate the virus on a small island) but we also run a risk of suffering economically if tourism is stopped as a consequence. It’s a double-edged sword. So now it’s time to look for a better balance for our health and finances. A growth mindset is in action and future orientating. Plus going out for a good run to keep the mind more balanced really helps.

We are going to take a leap of faith filled with hope to keep us going in these times of uncertainty. SO if you are still reading this to the end be prepared for some news coming very soon…it excites me and it scares the crap out of me at the same time.

First Run Outdoors Since Lockdown

and anchoring a positive state

We’re all experiencing changes since the lockdown and today in Spain is the first day since March 14th(?) that outdoor exercise can take place. There are rules. Only between 5am-10am or 8pm-11pm for running, walking, cycling and surfing and 10m distance between runners.

My last decent run feels a long time ago (see pic below) and I can hardly believe what has happened during that space of time.

Benidorm Half Marathon 29th Feb. 2020.

Exercise since then has consisted of skipping with my son’s skipping rope in the garden and running infinite circuits in the shape of the number 8 on my roof top whilst keeping my mind entertained running in such a small space. But at least I had the space to do so.

A Beautiful Insight into Today’s Release in the Outdoors

If there’s something beautiful that can be gained from this lockdown, it’s the hightened feeling of being allowed to go out and do something you haven’t been able to do for a long time. When 8pm came and I stepped out on to the street I was swept with a sudden surge of childlike excitement. It was the most wonderful feeling and being a hypnotherapist I knew how resourceful it is to keep hold of good sensations in the body, so I decided to anchor it.

Anchoring the Good Stuff

If you do not know what is anchoring, one example of this is when you hear a certain piece of music and you associate it with a memory which makes you feel in a certain way. In my case I wanted to harness a wonderful positive anchor of feeling a way I had not felt in a long time – that childlike excitement as if you were about to open up your Christmas presents that I experienced this evening. I was actually shaking my hands with excitement at the prospect of going out and running through the fishing village where I live (see main pic) and running along the avenida next to the sea.

To create your own really good anchor, now is a great time if you have been confined indoors for long聽 and are finally allowed to go out and do something you’ve missed after such a long time. Emotions may be heightened. Maybe there is a deeper sense of gratitude or excitement or euphoria or peacefulness, or something else. Whatever it is, now is a good time to really notice how you are feeling and where in your body are those sensations. Maybe give it a form, a colour and notice if it has a movement. Mine was a warm golden swirling feeling I associate as bliss and euphoria,聽 which I took with me through the run, smiling and giving the thumbs-up to other runners (at a safe distance apart, of course). I decided to use my shaking out my hands movement as my anchor to associate with these wonderful sensations and practised it a few times on my run to help condition it.

There was a perfect sunset and temperature, the surfers out for the first time in months, the sound of relaxed music coming from the open windows of some of the beach houses. The chilled out vibe of a surfers village but with a quieter peacefulness to it. A number of people were out walking and enjoying the tranquility of the last rays of sunshine and the beautiful orange sky. My heart rate was higher than usual due to not having been able to keep up my normal running training,聽 but I felt great nevertheless in this anchored state.

You may be wondering what is the point in all of this? Well, if I ever find myself demotivated to do some work or de-energised on a run, or just plain down, I can shake out my hands and bring about a different physiological state which can counteract the unproductive ones, feeling that childlike excitement. Does that make sense? Like putting on your favourite song to give you a lift. It takes practice but it’s worth it.

Once again, during these times of gradual changes, when you do experience something liberating after a long confinement, really tune in to your body and notice what you notice and anchor it somewhere on to your body (e.g. touching the thumb and index finger together to fire those sensations off) giving you quick access to changing state in a variety of situations.

I hope you also can find some useful insight during these times of change.

My best wishes to you all.

Goals are NOT set in stone

“Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success.” Pablo Picasso

What are goals all about?

In short simplified terms, goals are something structured to strive towards, for moving forwards in life. No goals means no sense of purpose or direction, just drifting and running a race with no finishing line. Some may say a life without goals is liberating but I like to find meaning in what I do and build resilience.

The WHY behind goals is important and this is often overlooked. My WHAT goal is to run my second half marathon in Benidorm next Saturday with the aim of improving on my first marathon time, hitting the 2hr mark. WHY? I like to challenge myself, I feel great pushing my limits, it boosts my self-confidence, and I love the discipline of sticking to a training plan and getting fitter.

However, life is not linear. I suffered a hamstring injury which put me out of training for two weeks, I have been working very hard on another goal which is to complete my portfolio to a high standard for my Hypnotherapy/NLP Diploma (this became my main priority), I am currently suffering from fatigue due to having difficulties absorbing iron despite a well-balanced diet. It sounds like a string of excuses but as a consequence I’ve had to taper my training significantly.

Reviewing goals and updating

It’s a good idea to check in and review personal goals regularly. Are they still SMART goals? That is, are they realistic, achievable and timely? I could see from the evidence of my training that my goal is not realistic, nor achievable or timely. My endurance is there, but boy, have I slowed down! My hamstring injury twinges means I’m running with shorter strides (many runners are masochists who carry on running despite their injuries!). So I’ve adjusted my goal. Instead I am now looking at finishing the half marathon at just under 2hr 15min (that’s 9min slower than my first). I aim to enjoy it and gain half marathon experience whilst facing the challenge of running in unknown territory.

After all, what is the point in setting yourself up for failure? By reviewing and tweaking your goal, you are looking at a win/win situation whilst still challenging yourself. That’s what I’ve done and it’s still motivating.聽Realistic goals are a bit of a grey area and may be interpreted as safe and less demanding. However, it’s finding that boundary between a goal that’s big enough to take you out of your comfort zone and push yourself. That’s what I’ll be doing in the half marathon, just not quite as much as I first hoped but enough to push myself through fatigue and running with a twinge in my left leg! And there will be plenty of testing out my self-hypnosis skills!聽

I have to say the last couple of months have been all about good time management, discipline to keep on track, a positive outlook, being mindful, engaging in self-hypnosis, and importantly, being kind to myself. Please be kind to yourself too and accept that life is not linear but at times a mountain to climb. But when you do reach the top and enjoy the broad clear view, it’s beautiful.

So here’s to the Benidorm Half Marathon, 18.30h on the 29th February, 2020! Then it’s off to Bournemouth again for some hypnosis seminars run by my brilliant tutor, Adam Eason. Looking forward to catching-up with a few colleagues whilst I’m there. 馃檪

What’s your personal goals and why?

Alive & Kicking.